Who do you want to be?

I want to be liked by everyone. Not because I'm concerned with being popular, but I want to be a genuinely nice, caring person, and a reaction from that, I believe, is that more people like you. I've found it hard in the past, and my best mate claims that I have a unique, blunt personality. I am not sure I'm happy with that. I think that by wanting to be someone better I will start to change myself, not dramatically quick, but rather quite subtly instead.