Update

So some time has passed. I have had a few interests pass with the time. Currently I am interested in the player. We've only caught up once so I'm still not sure where it will end up. He's 24, works in IT and is single.
Also in this time, I have slept with a co-worker who's girlfriend is also a co-worker. This is an interesting situation, made simpler by our unspoken sworn secrecy of the matter (so I'm posting it on the internet) and because we know I am not his and he is not mine, so anything that happens with anyone else does not concern him. He seems okay with it, and I'm glad. I wouldn't have done it in the first place if I didn't know that he doesn't consider sex cheating. I honestly believe I haven't done anything wrong. I know her, but I am not close enough to call her a friend. And therefore, why should I tell her anything about it? It doesn't really concern me because I didn't initiate anything; I just didn't say stop. Am I trying to justify myself? Yes, I think so. But I do believe he is the one in the wrong, I merely went along with what I wanted and made sure I didn't initiate it.
So things with my Mr. Big. Where are they at, what is happening on that front and down below. I will begin where I left off. So New Years Day I ring him after I finish work at 4am and say, 'Let's hang out, Happy New Year!' Basically he tells me he is in bed and really sleepy. So I offer sex. Why not? To my shock, he refuses, and the call ends. Shortly after I text him asking if he wants to cuddle and spoon instead. Upon getting no response I fall asleep.
Early afternoon I awake and receive a message from him saying, 'Sorry I fell asleep, but I'm about to have a nap so come around whenever.' I have a few hours free until work starts, so I ride around. In all my bike gear, I strip to my singlet and underpants and jump into bed with him. He gently awakens and we sleep together. I get up, shower, and go to work. I spend the next few days trying to text him.
Around this time I start talking to the player and we agree to meet. Then I go to the coast with the co-worker and that happens. Now I am back at home, and he has started texting me more. He even went so far as to ride into my work one night just to say hi for ten minutes.
I think I understand what is happening here. I've stopped messaging and calling him and now he wants me back. But I'm not sure. He invited me over again tonight however I am trying to resist the urge to rush to his side, as I would've done not two weeks ago. It would be great to go to his place tonight, unfortunately I know all that would happen is we'd sleep, and I want to talk to him so I'll wait until tomorrow and call him to organise to meet up. I need to know what is with this last strange combo of messages.

Otherwise, I feel I am moving on quite well. The other boys are a welcome distraction, and, while I still think of him everyday, I am becoming more accepting of being single.