Break

A very close friend of mine made a suggestion. The thought had been floating in the back of my mind, but it hadn't yet surfaced. Then he suggested it. Awesome friend.
With regards to my not being able to pinpoint what it is that I want from my relationship, my mate said,
"Hey would it work if you reduced communication with him a bit? ...because you could be thinking too hard and coming up with possible outcomes/situations etc"
Genius. I think. Yes, it will be hard, but it's the most logical way I can think of to deduce what it is that I want more: intimacy, companionship, sex, friendship, and so on, and so forth. By not seeing my man (I really shouldn't call him mine, but I still have his heart so I guess it's okay), the element of our relationship I long for the most will float to the surface. Then I can talk to him, and we can make an A.P. based on this new information. Perfect.

Thanks for the awesome idea mate :)